u/Electrical_Band6838 — reddlx

about 3 nights ago i went to bed around 10pm. my fiancé got off work around that time and told me he was going out with his friends. anyways… i woke up at 3am confused wondering where he was because he still wasn’t home. he hasn’t been out that late without updating me in a while. i called him multiple times no answer. i check his location. he’s at a strip club. he didn’t end up texting me back until they closed at 4am. which the bar he and his friends went to closed at 1am so i have no clue what they were doing all that time. he claims they got to the strip club at 3am but that’s still at 2 period time frame that don’t make sense. he told me he only paid for the entrance fee and his friends did all the extra stuff and he only watched. i told him it would’ve been way different if he would’ve asked first but he was straight up ignoring me. he claims he just made a bad decision because he was too drunk but i don’t even know what to do. i feel like it’s just disrespectful, his friends are very grimey and single and unloyal asf. i feel like it’s just embarrassing for my fiance to be doing that.