u/ElectricalMolasses22

Since then he has not reached out in regards to the kids at all. He has not messaged at all, which is actually shocking to me. I have a recording of his huge emotional outburst, several threats and had to call the police on him not one, but twice! I cannot be alone with him, he becomes extremely belligerent if a third party is not present. So I have not contacted him. I’m in the home caring for our kids without any access to income. I’m a sahm with a baby under 1, a 3year old and 6 year old.

Do I need to send him a brief message on the kids?? Wait for him to contact me? I don’t want him to try to use “I’m keeping them from him” against me even though he has not text or called.