Hi, I am new here, and it might not be as complicated as I am making it out to be, but I'll start with a little background. I am a stay-at-home mother (25F) and I don't normally get socialization. I don't have any friends outside of family, and I know there are groups online, but I am weary about it because of everything going on in the world right now. I try to socialize with my birth family, which is my mom, dad, and brother, but I always feel like I am bothering them. I always try to invite my mom out because she stays at home too, and I am always met with the excuse that there is too much to do at home, but when my brother or her friend wants to go out, she goes. My husbands side of the family all have jobs, so I don't get too much socialization from them. My husband says I have him, but after he comes home from work, he doesn't normally feel like interacting and he mainly just goes on his laptop and plays games. The only interaction I get most days are with my toddlers and that is wearing me down a little bit.
Now, with Mother's Day coming up this weekend, my husband has to work, so I won't be able to do much with him, so I invited my birth family out for dinner on Saturday because it will be the most likely time to get into the restaurant. I invited them two weeks ago and they said they would most likely not be able to go. Last night, I went over to their house and that is where I learned that my brother is taking my parents to that very same restaurant on the very same day that I invited them, and they never said anything to me about it. I am going to be home, most likely alone with my kids, because my husband will have to work and he doesn't really have a choice in the matter. He wanted to take me out for dinner, but the work schedule conflicted with those plans. When I said something to them about how I originally invited them out, I was met with awkward smiles and they downplayed it. Am I overreacting with feeling upset with my family?