u/Electrical-Trifle890

I have a friends wedding in a few weeks and I am in the wedding party. I was planning on driving 5 hours ( likely 7 hours with stops for baby and pumping), stopping at my parents for a night and then 2 more hours to Philly for the wedding. I thought this would be possible but I am starting to have doubts. The amount of time in the car, the over stimulation for my baby, my over tiredness , it all seems maybe too much. Have others done this kind of thing before? She has hit a 5-6 week increased fussiness but I know every week can change so maybe next week she will be less fussy. Also her 2 month check in isn’t till the week after the wedding so she won’t be vaccinated. Should I consider opting out of the wedding ? My friend will be so upset but it seems like a lot of strain to but on my family.