Is this a reasonable ask of flatmate?
Hi, every morning I (F) find pee left overnight in the toilet by flatmate (M) and also drops on the seat etc — it’s usually up to me to clean it away and flush because I’m the first one up.
I’m from a different country and don’t know whether this is normal/acceptable but I find it gross, especially if it’s contaminating the seat too.
You wouldn’t find my period blood on there, I always ensure everything’s clean and gone if something does get on the seat.
I’d find it very embarrassing if I have guests staying overnight, if they use the loo in the night or before me in the morning and would find this.
What are your thoughts? I want to address it for sure but expect him to be dismissive like “just deal with it, no big issue”, to which I’d raise the absence of period blood — it’s not like it’s a big ask. Is this normal here??