Hey!! I am 31, (woman) I’ve been confused most of my 20’s with the thought of being lesbian. I’ve had three relationships with men and then two with woman. I did label myself as bisexual. I have noticed I try to fix the guy that I’m dating in those relationships and I’m never actually happy.
The sex drive isn’t there and I end up hating myself during them and they have all been two years. I could never see a future with any of them.
When I dated my two exes who were woman were totally okay about my bisexuality. I was super happy and loved the intimacy. Both of my exes just got out of serious relationships and used me as a rebound. They later apologized and wanted to try again but I got super hurt the first time around. I am ready to come out now but I have a fear that I might not actually find a solid relationship with a woman. I’m not in a rush but the most comfortable I’ve ever felt in my life. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. 💛