How do I lower my expectations ??
20M here, in college. Every guy I match with on hinge I think will be great and then I immediately get an ick when we meet in person. Here are things I look for:
(Mildly) attractive
Able to hold a conversation
Hygienic
Intelligent
Ambitious
Funny
My last few dates have simply been missing way too many of these and I am truly on the verge of giving up. Like I shouldn’t have to hope the person I am meeting will shower before the date. I shouldn’t be the only one asking interesting questions and keeping the conversation going. Is that too much to ask?? Like genuinely?? How can I change my profile to not attract these people ?
u/ElectraPhilicity — 12 hours ago