my bf of 7 years wants kids but i DONT
i (22F) have been with my boyfriend (22M) for 7 years now. our relationship has been getting a lot more serious with talks of our future, moving in, marriage, and kids. we have literally had the most amazing relationship ever and are deeply in love. he’s the perfect partner and has always treated me good. we agree on most things except the fact that i do not wants kids and he does. i’ve been very clear and direct on the fact that i dislike everything that comes along with having a baby, pregnancy, motherhood, and raising children. i truly cannot ever see myself wanting to have kids and im quite set on that. he told me that he’s always seen himself having at least one child but that he’s willing to sacrifice that in order to stay with me. also said that in the future he may end up feeling a little miserable but willing to go through that because being with me is more important to him. i’m not sure what to do. i want him to have what he wants in life but am not sure i can completely provide that. is it even right to let him sacrifice that dream of his? am i too young to even be worried about something like this and just hold it off? or is this a serious issue that will just get worse later on? help