friendly flirting or not?
so me and this girl (shes a masc lesbian) have been flirting for about 2 years now. idk, if its anything major. i mean she calls me her wife, holds my hand, touches me all the time, sometimes calls me sweetheart over message and plays with my hair, and called me her hear me out and calls me cute. we were also playing truth or dare recently and she asked me who I liked and said she wasn't convinced when I said "no one". this same hangout she was sat with her arm wrapped around me at one point, and moved closer when one of our friends mentioned it.
idk if she likes me though, since whenever she's drunk or high, she starts talking about her ex. she starts talking about how much she loves her and misses her and how she's her safe person, and honestly I do get a bit jealous but I do remain supportive and give her honest advice based off the situation.
I, myself don't know if I like her though. i constantly find myself craving her attention and wanting to hold her hand, but im not sure. up to recently, I thought of this as just friendly flirting until my friends started saying things like "just kiss already" or "just get together already" which made me think that maybe there was more to it. idk, can somebody give me their thoughts on this??