My husband (30M) can only have sex with me (30F) while watching porn. when we first started dating and being intimate he didn’t watch porn and sex would take a long time at the time I thought he was just really into making me feel good. For play, different position. And one time we decided to spice thing up and watch some porn. Now that we are married that is the norm, and he doesn’t care about my pleasure. No connection, just using my V part. It has 2 years since we did it without porn and he said insists on doing it almost everyday. if not it’s an argument. I think it’s an addiction, he says it’s the only way he can do it. And to be a good wife I have to do it to please him.
How do I even get him to see how harmful this is, not just for our relationship but it’s the reason for ED, he can’t sleep without it.