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My (M31) partner (F29) has been liking photos of a guy (M37) she previously flirted (or more?) with.
What I know:
- They are online acquaintances, from before our relationship, supposedly they never met irl.
- She mentioned him before, how she considers him attractive, later mentioned some of his flirty dms, playing dumb how she didn't interpret his comments as flirty, even though the comments were about her looks and his eyes being glued to her (in those exact words), she also insists she didn't respond in a flirty manner, and to have not responded at all actually.
- However, she didn't stop contact with him even though flirty comments came months into our relationship.
- His profile was private and I'm not following him, but recently he made his profile public and I find that she has been liking his photos, all of them, as soon as they get posted, 1.5 years into our relationship.
- I confront her about that (pretty tame, no aggression or accussation of cheating), she says she understands how it looks and how I feel about it, that I have every right to feel that way, that she would feel the same if it was vice-versa, that she won't do it again, that she loves me etc etc.
My stance on this is that it constitutes flirting. I am hurt. Not sure how and if I should move past it. What do you guys think?