Spouse (55 F ) and I ( 55 M ) have undergone couple therapy, she is giving herself a week to re-think if she wants to continue
It has been going on like that for the past year and a half or so. At first it was her who would talk separation when we were doing the therapy, but at times I do question aloud our relationship too...
I did tell her that it would be best to continue with couple counselling because we do see some results, we joke around more and work somewhat better together ( when not arguing, which is the main issue ! )...
Also some issues with traumas from the past together. She simply cannot let go from the past. I have made amends as it relates to our tempestuous past relationship and my straying. I have been truly faithful the past 15 years of so, of a 25 years marriage. It was emotional unfaithfulness to be clear.
She conceded that yes, there has been some good moments in the last few months.
I am Christian, but she is not. I am New Born.
Please help. I am tired of having to do the convincing all the time. I really did put in the hard work.