u/Effective-Low-2859

Hi, I’m M35, my partner is 33F and we’ve been together for 7 years, since my early teens I’ve secretly been bi and kept this well hidden still to this day, a few of months into our relationship (Bare in mind we did have a little fling 8-9 years prior to we rekindled) i admitted to her is was Bi, however I told her that it wasn’t an issue but I felt like I had to tell her ( she’s the only female partner I’ve ever told), she was shocked and confused which is understandable, I left her to make her own decision about this and she was okay with it, as time went on she accepted it more and more. She could listen and accepted that although i wanted her I still struggled to deal with not being able to have gay sex also, after deep talks, we both accepted and agreed to a the possibilities of a Bi MMF threesome which she’s open too if it all works out, we’ve both spoken about this multiple times and we both get turned on by the thoughts of certain things but we’re both still realistic about what we both like/do and don’t want to do not only to save our relationship but also out of respect for each other. We have agreed that if we came to it, our plan would be we’d chat to the other guy first to see how things are, then take a break away where me and her can privately discuss what we liked, didnt like and would like to happen if we wanted to continue, also we’ve agree to take regular interval breaks before things advance to see how we both feel and how we’d like things to plan out if they do advance, also I’ve stated what my misses says goes, if she says no, it means no! We’re both on the same page and want to do this properly without hurting each other, does this sound like a good start?