Husband was in a place where prostetute was present (f32, M32) saying was there for a drink // protecting friend? would you belive?
I’m recently married(3 years) and dealing with a serious trust issue. (F32, M 32)
I found hidden explicit photos/videos on my husband’s phone in a locked folder, and some of this content was from during our marriage, including situations where he was physically present.
-He's saying it was a bachelor's party and he was just drinking with his friend, while a prostitute was present.
-a two/three more incidents of prostitution physically present.
He downplays it and says it’s not a big deal, but it feels like a major breach of trust to me.
Has anyone dealt with something like this early in marriage? Is this something that can be worked through, or is it a clear red flag about deeper behavior and boundaries?
How would you see this situation? Is it even possible that he's just there for a drink and nothing more?