If you had to compromise on shootability and concealability, which would you lean towards and why?
For context, my wife is looking for a new carry gun. She likes the size of a bg2.0 but she doesn’t like shooting it. She loves shooting my dagger compact with ported barrel, optic, and light, but she would never carry something that big. She also prefers firearms with full 3 finger grips (even if an extended mag adds additional grip like shield plus 13 rd mags, she’s weird idk). I’m racking my head trying to figure out what would be a good gun for her that would be in the middle but all the micro compact 9s don’t have 3 finger grips and bigger than that is the same size as my dagger compact. Given that her desires are for more than what I think exists currently, should I convince her to compromise on shootability or concealability? Or is there a gun that would actually fit her bill? Thanks in advance