We have a group coming from Kansas City for Griztronics May 22-24. It will be our first time at The Gorge. We have an Airbnb about 30 min from the venue. We are wondering if anyone has advice regarding how to dress? We will be wearing rave gear but how hot/cold should we expect it to be? Any other advice/tips about coming to a show at the gorge (what to bring, what to expect, gorge hacks) is greatly appreciated.
My wife and I had a fun night with another couple who we get along great with. We’ve played with them a few times and it’s usually gone well. My wife tends to get more out of the experience than I do because the girls also enjoy each other. That’s totally fine, I want her to have a great time. What I’m trying to figure out is whether it’s worth bringing up small things that sometimes get to me a little bit. For instance, each time we have played with them there has been moment where we are having sex with our own partners and my wife leaves me and goes over to the other couple and starts rubbing and touching each of them while they are having sex with each other. This most recent time I just decided instead of sitting on the bed alone to go over and have sex with my wife from behind while she touched them. I felt like I adapted well but every time this has happened I just feel like I’m getting left behind. Like she’s much more interested in them than with me. I know that part of the whole thing is enjoying the other people, but the other wife never comes over to us and does that. So it feels one sided and I tend to be the one on the outside looking in. We’ve discussed this in the past how it kind of bothered me and things were better this time because I chose to adapt instead of getting in my feels about it. I don’t want it to sound to her like I am nitpicking or just looking for something to critique. It’s hard to find the balance of discussing what you’d like to improve and looking for things to be bothered by. So I don’t know if it’s worth bringing up again, or if I need to just let my wife do her thing and do my best to keep adapting and supporting. Any advice is helpful!