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Over the past decade, I’ve always prided myself on my stock-picking skills. During that time, I’ve picked winners and losers alike, but I still managed to make a little money. Now, I’ve finally come to terms with the fact that my stock-picking ability is actually only slightly better than that of the average retail investor. I liquidated nearly all my holdings (keeping only three stocks I personally liked) and invested 50% of the proceeds in VT and 50% in VOO. And just like that, I stopped picking individual stocks. ETFs are the right answer. I was wrong.

NVDA: Total profit is roughly between $220,000 and $280,000

I’ve been buying and selling on and off since 2021, primarily trading LEAPs options and adding to positions during pullbacks

I’ve never perfectly timed the bottom; I just kept adding to positions when the market looked strong. As usual, I sold too early during some uptrends

MU / AMD / AVGO / AMZN:

Same old story: buying aggressively on dips, usually investing $10,000–$15,000 in out-of-the-money call options

Half of them didn’t move at all, and some even went to zero

But the ones that succeeded… made up for all the losses

QQQ 0DTE:

Honestly, this thing really helped me get through a few tough days. Total profit is roughly between $40,000 and $60,000, but I’ve given back quite a bit too—sometimes it feels like flipping a coin

The biggest winner so far has been RKLB:

I held about 9,000 shares at an average cost of over $20. I watched it rise, trimmed my position slightly when it hit over $40, held part of it until it reached over $50, and then closed the entire position.

If I’d been able to resist selling back then, I could have made even more.

But isn’t that just the same old story every time? This whole year has been incredibly stressful the kind of pressure you feel when checking futures at 3 a.m., the kind of pressure to convince yourself not to buy back in out of FOMO (fear of missing out), and the pressure of watching profits fluctuate wildly.

It feels like half the time I still don’t really know what I’m doing.

But I think this year I’ve finally gotten something right.

This wasn’t the result of some crazy single trade or perfect timing quite the opposite. During my 20s and 30s, I was an ordinary guy with a stable job and a steady, decent income; I was definitely not the type to foresee major trends early on or catch them at the perfect moment.

Most of my investment capital (about $2.4 million) is held in brokerage and retirement accounts, and my investment approach is fairly straightforward:

I’m heavily weighted in large-cap stocks that I truly understand and feel comfortable holding through periods of volatility Apple, Microsoft, and NVIDIA. Not because they’re safe, but because they have genuine profitability and long-term tailwinds.

At the same time, I keep a portion of my funds in index funds so I don’t become overly reliant on any single position. It’s all about broad exposure.

There’s one thing I’ve been quite consistent about (even when it felt pointless at the time): filling my tax-free account limits whenever possible. This is likely where the power of compound interest really started to kick in.

I didn’t chase every hot trade, didn’t go all-in on speculative bets, and didn’t try to turn every market fluctuation into a quick profit. If anything, I viewed most of my positions as holdings I could keep for years, not weeks.

Those years were slow and a bit boring. But they ultimately became the foundation for everything that followed.

Looking back now, there wasn’t a single moment that changed everything. It was just a lot of small decisions that accumulated over time.

I’m still working and don’t plan to quit anytime soon, but for the first time, I genuinely feel that I could walk away someday. That shift might be the best part of all.

What works for me: focusing on the companies, not the stock symbols; letting time do most of the work; using tax-free accounts as much as possible; and avoiding messing things up by chasing short-term gains.

This isn’t advice just what works for me.

I’m curious how do people here build their TFSAs?

For most of my 20s and early 30s, I wasn’t doing anything special. Just… regular life. Stable job, decent income, nothing crazy. Paid the bills, saved a little here and there, but nothing that screamed “future millionaire.”

I work in tech now moved into a senior role a few years back and that definitely helped accelerate things. But the bulk of this? Really came from just staying consistent over time. Boring, tedious consistency.

Right now I’m sitting a little over $3M net worth. Still can’t believe it, tbh. Around $2.4M is invested across brokerage + retirement accounts. Rough breakdown, if anyone cares:

Brokerage: mostly large cap names — Apple, NVIDIA, Microsoft, plus some index funds (nothing fancy, just the usual suspects)

Traditional IRA (rolled over from old 401k): just steady contributions over the years, no big moves

Roth IRA: maxed it consistently whenever I could. Felt like a chore sometimes, but worth it now.

I didn’t time anything perfectly. Far from it. Missed plenty of runs, sold things way too early (kicking myself for that), held some stuff way longer than I should’ve. But I kept adding. Kept learning. Tried not to blow myself up chasing quick wins that’s the big one, honestly.

What’s hitting me now is this wasn’t one big moment. No “holy shit” trade that changed everything. It was a lot of boring years that didn’t feel like they were doing much at the time. Just slow, steady progress.

I’m still working not planning to quit anytime soon. But for the first time? It actually feels like work is optional down the line. Not something I’m forced into forever, even living in a high cost area (which is a miracle in itself).

There’s still that voice in my head saying “you should’ve started earlier.” Coulda, woulda, shoulda. But at the same time I know 10 years ago I would’ve been shocked to even be anywhere near this. So I’m trying to cut myself some slack.

Anyway, don’t really have people in real life I can say this to without it sounding weird. Either they don’t get the investing stuff, or it comes off as bragging. So just putting it here.

I’m curious to know how everyone spends their time—what else do you do besides trading?

Still feels kind of unreal even typing that. Like, I keep checking my account to make sure I’m not dreaming.

Retiring early’s always been in the back of my mind. Not something I ever talked about much—just… something I wanted quietly. Never told anyone, not even close friends.

My ex and I were never really on the same page about it. She was all about stability, keeping things predictable. I get it, y’know? Stability’s not a bad thing. But I always felt like if I wanted something different something more I’d have to build it myself. No one’s gonna hand it to you.

We’re separated now. Divorce is happening this year. Been a rough stretch, but today? Today made it feel like maybe it’s all worth it.

In the background, I’ve just been putting in the work. Learning, messing up (a lot), adjusting, trying again. Rinse and repeat. No fancy strategy, just grind.

Today hit different, though.

I’m traveling for work, ended up in the same city where I had my first job years ago. Walked past some of those streets again man, it brought everything back. All the late nights, the grind, the feeling like I was going nowhere fast.

Back then, I was working full time, grinding my ass off, thinking I was making progress. Spent two years there, barely scraping by.

Today? I made more in a single day than I did in two full years back then.

That’s hard to even process. Like, my brain can’t wrap around it. Still in shock a little.

A big part of it came from positions I started building a few months ago INOD and RKLB. Nothing perfectly timed, just added when things started lining up. Didn’t overthink it, just pulled the trigger when it felt right.

I’ve also been holding some of the usual names on the side NVDA, MSFT, a bit of the bigger stuff. Trying to stay in things that actually have momentum behind them, not just random hype.

I’m still not anywhere near FIRE yet. Not even close. Don’t wanna get ahead of myself here.

But for the first time? It doesn’t feel like some distant idea anymore. Doesn’t feel like a pipe dream.

Feels like I might actually get there. Like, maybe this grind isn’t for nothing.

Didn’t really have anyone to say this to, tbh. Friends don’t get the investing stuff, family’s too wrapped up in their own stuff. So I’m just putting it here. Maybe someone gets it.

Anyway… back to it tomorrow. Gotta keep the momentum going. Can’t slack now.

I sat in the car for a few minutes before going inside. Not even excited really. More like trying to process that I don’t have to do this again on Monday.

I'm 52, based in Bellevue, WA. Spent a little over 20 years in tech, mostly as a program manager. Pay got better over time. Last 8 to 10 years I was somewhere in the 280kto350k range with bonus and stock comp. But the tradeoff was always time. Deadlines, late calls, always "one more thing." You know how it is.

From the outside, life looked fine. House we bought back in 2012. Nothing crazy, just good timing. One car, one daughter. She just started her first job this year. That probably mattered more than anything in me finally stepping away. Idk why I'm even saying that but it's true.

For a long time I wasn't doing anything special with money. 401k, a few random stocks, mostly reacting to headlines. In and out, chasing things, second guessing every move. Made money, gave it back, repeat. So dumb looking back.

About 3 or 4 years ago something shifted. I got tired of feeling like I was always busy but not actually getting ahead. That's when I stopped trying to "trade" and started just building positions I could sit with. No big strategy. Just slower decisions. Also started sleeping better lol.

Right now I'm a bit over $4M across everything. Roughly:

• About $1.2M in Roth IRA. Mostly VOO, some QQQ, added NVDA gradually. Not all at once, wish I did.
• About $2.5M in taxable accounts.
• The rest in cash plus a bit of bonds. Old habit, whatever.

Main holdings are pretty simple:

• NVDA. Around 900 shares. Actually 892 but who's counting.
• MSFT. About 300 shares.
• Some MU and AMZN on the side.
• Index funds as the base.

Nothing was perfectly timed. I added over time, sometimes early, sometimes late. The only difference this time is I didn't keep messing with it. That was always my problem before. Not bad picks, just bad behavior.

I'd sell too early because I didn't trust it. Or hold losers because I didn't want to be wrong. Or jump back in higher because I felt like I missed it. Ugh. Just typing that makes me cringe.

This time I just sat through it. Through the pullbacks, through the noise, through the doubt. Not perfectly, but enough. I still checked my phone more than I should've though. No one's perfect.

The market right now feels strange. Short term, everything moves fast. A lot of crowded trades, quick reversals. I stopped chasing those. Longer term, I still think capital flows into AI, infrastructure, anything tied to it. Maybe not in a straight line, but the direction seems clear. Or maybe I'm just telling myself that. Who knows.

My "strategy" now is honestly boring. Build slowly. Don't overtrade. Keep some cash. And know why I'm in something before I buy it. Boring but working so far.

I didn't have some big moment today. No celebration. Just came home, made a coffee, and realized I don't have to open my laptop tomorrow. That part hasn't really sunk in yet. Honestly I'll probably panic a little on Monday morning out of habit.

For years I thought the goal was to hit some number. Now it feels more like figuring out when enough is actually enough. Still not 100% sure but… I guess I'll find out.

Curious if anyone else here is getting close to that point, or thinking about it differently than before. Feels like a weird place to be but probably not alone.

Never thought I’d say that out loud.

I live out in Austin, nothing fancy. A small house I bought years ago when prices were still reasonable, one car paid off two kids: one in high school, one already in college. Life’s been pretty normal, honestly. I worked in IT most of my career, steady income but nothing crazy.

About 3 years ago, I put a big chunk of my savings into MU. Around $260-ish, if I remember right. Everyone kept talking about AI, memory cycles, HBM demand… I didn’t fully understand all of it, but I understood enough to know this wasn’t a random hype trade.

Right now, I’m holding ~9,800 shares.

I’ve thought about trimming more times than I can count. Watching it go from “this might work” to numbers that actually change your life… it messes with your head more than people think.

I’ve got around $4M across everything now. About $1.6M of that is in a Roth IRA, mostly index funds and some NVDA I picked up earlier. I still hold some boring stuff too SPY, a bit of QQQ, some cash sitting on the side, because I still don’t trust myself to go all in all the time.

No yachts. No crazy lifestyle. Just… options.

That’s the weird part. It doesn’t feel real until you realize you don’t have to go to work Monday.

I used to think trading and investing was about picking the right stock. Turns out it’s more about sitting through the doubt without doing something stupid.

Not saying MU was some genius move. I got a lot wrong before this. Sold things too early, held some garbage way too long, chased stuff I shouldn’t have.

This one I just… didn’t mess up.

Curious how many of you are holding something right now that could actually change your life, if you just leave it alone.

Never thought I’d say that out loud.

I live out in Austin, nothing fancy. A small house I bought years ago when prices were still reasonable, one car paid off two kids: one in high school, one already in college. Life’s been pretty normal, honestly. I worked in IT most of my career, steady income but nothing crazy.

About 3 years ago, I put a big chunk of my savings into MU. Around $260-ish, if I remember right. Everyone kept talking about AI, memory cycles, HBM demand… I didn’t fully understand all of it, but I understood enough to know this wasn’t a random hype trade.

Right now, I’m holding ~9,800 shares.

I’ve thought about trimming more times than I can count. Watching it go from “this might work” to numbers that actually change your life… it messes with your head more than people think.

I’ve got around $4M across everything now. About $1.6M of that is in a Roth IRA, mostly index funds and some NVDA I picked up earlier. I still hold some boring stuff too SPY, a bit of QQQ, some cash sitting on the side, because I still don’t trust myself to go all in all the time.

No yachts. No crazy lifestyle. Just… options.

That’s the weird part. It doesn’t feel real until you realize you don’t have to go to work Monday.

I used to think trading and investing was about picking the right stock. Turns out it’s more about sitting through the doubt without doing something stupid.

Not saying MU was some genius move. I got a lot wrong before this. Sold things too early, held some garbage way too long, chased stuff I shouldn’t have.

This one I just… didn’t mess up.

Curious how many of you are holding something right now that could actually change your life, if you just leave it alone.

This is so cool. I’ve been close but never actually hit this milestone in a single month.

I (35m) and my wife have a NW of 1.98M, broken down as 120k cash, 1.6M invested, and our house at 260k. No debt or mortgage other than the revolving balances on our credit cards which are paid off monthly. Our investments gained 180k this month. My wife is a SAHM and my salary is 145k, so this was significantly more than we take home in a year.

I wish I could share with someone other than my wife but won’t for obvious reasons, so I’ll share here.

ETA - for the love of god please stop telling me not to get excited or that this isn’t normal. Absolutely no where have I said I expect this all the time or that I don’t realize it can go down. I’m celebrating this milestone.

Used to think the only way to catch a move was getting in right on the breakout. So I’d take that first push almost every time. And yeah, sometimes it worked just enough to make me keep doing it.

But looking back, most of the damage actually came from those entries. Because a lot of them just stall or fake out, and you end up reacting instead of actually being early.

Lately I’ve been doing the opposite: just letting that first move go, and watching what it does after it slows down a bit. That part honestly tells you way more than the breakout itself.

If the pullback is quick and doesn’t really go anywhere, it usually keeps going. But when it starts hanging around or feels messy, that’s where I’ve been seeing a lot of them roll over and trap people who chased it.

I’m not even sure I’d call it a rule yet. It’s more like something I started noticing after seeing the same thing happen over and over. I actually started writing a few of these out just to keep track, because I kept missing them at first. Still trying to figure out the timing on that second move though that part is tricky.

Used to think the only way to catch a move was getting in right on the breakout. So I’d take that first push almost every time. And yeah, sometimes it worked just enough to make me keep doing it.

But looking back, most of the damage actually came from those entries. Because a lot of them just stall or fake out, and you end up reacting instead of actually being early.

Lately I’ve been doing the opposite: just letting that first move go, and watching what it does after it slows down a bit. That part honestly tells you way more than the breakout itself.

If the pullback is quick and doesn’t really go anywhere, it usually keeps going. But when it starts hanging around or feels messy, that’s where I’ve been seeing a lot of them roll over and trap people who chased it.

I’m not even sure I’d call it a rule yet. It’s more like something I started noticing after seeing the same thing happen over and over. I actually started writing a few of these out just to keep track, because I kept missing them at first. Still trying to figure out the timing on that second move though that part is tricky.

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I'm 48 years old this year. My main investments are concentrated in Nvidia, Tesla, Google, Apple, and some stocks with growth potential, as well as some cryptocurrencies. This is the main reason why my assets have reached their current level

I primarily employ a reversal trading strategy based on advanced indicators: by identifying overbought or oversold conditions, I use reversal signals such as RSI and stochastic oscillators to capture price reversal opportunities

Technical patterns: such as head and shoulders top, head and shoulders bottom, double top, double bottom, etc. The appearance of these patterns usually indicates a possible market reversal. Oversold signal: When the RSI is below 30 and the price is in a downtrend, but suddenly shows signs of rising, it may trigger a reversal buy signal

Overbought signal: When the RSI is above 70 and the price is in an upward trend but shows signs of falling, a reversal sell signal may be triggered

I've organized the details into a folder. My chat window is open 24/7. I'm getting older, and various symptoms are starting to appear. Perhaps I'll consider retirement someday. Sometimes I ponder the meaning of life. Thank you for your likes and comments. Feel free to ask questions anytime. Thank you again