u/Educational_Honey_98

At what stage did you have visitors after birth? I do feel a sense of pressure to have our parents in straight away - and to be honest, if all goes well I know I will be happy to see them (neither set of parents are pushy. I just want to do the right thing)

In terms on siblings - whats the norm? I am worried about post partum and recovery, and getting settled myself without an audience. I also don't want people to see me in my pjs/looking less than normal. But I do feel a pressure to have the siblings in straight away...