u/Educational_Fig_6177

I've been together with my boyfriend for around 8 months. We only see each other on weekends due to distance and our schedules. In the beginning of the relationship we use to have sex constantly everyday we'd see each other but now it's died down. We had a really bad fight and broke up for 2 weeks but soon got back together everything was fine and the sex went back to normal however 2 weeks later he started to get bumps on the tip of his penis and shaft after sex and these bumps were reddish and white filled,very tiny ,didnt itch or hurt to pee it's like they were just there. As soon as he told me I wanted him to go to the doctor obviously he didnt, he has never liked the doctor but now it's affecting our sex life. He barely wants to have sex with me saying it hurts and that I leave his penis skin torn up which I do see it red sometimes but now the bumps came back after a weekend of us having sex and I dont know what to do I feel desperate for a solution but he refuses to go to a doctor and every said it hurts to pull back the foreskin. I've gotten horrendously angry and screamed at him because I am very frustrated sexually and it feels like he doesn't care ,he finishes in 5 seconds and only wants to have it once a days now and I feel used and ignored of my wants and ive told his to him and he just ignores me saying I'm to tight and he doesn't care to try or go to the doctor because it's me but I dont know how to even fix myself weve tried lube but it still hurts him and I dont know. Yesterday we had a fight about him going to the doctor and if he didnt then this would strain our relationship and I hadn't heard since.