Hi,
So as the title reads I(F32) & oldest daughter finally went no contact with narc mother even though she has recently lost her mother.
What led me to this point is that despite understanding she’s grieving she’s shown that harmful behaviour and comments will not stop(even get worse l). I see she’s also using as an opportunity to not respect any boundaries that were already put in place.
More context she’s decided to quit her job and go abroad with no savings or back up plan and expects me to sustain her all this time as well as contributing to the funeral. I’m currently a single mum and made redundant but doesn’t seem to care.
My sister and stepfather all understand my decision and agree
I feel guilty for now distancing myself and icing her out but i’m truly burned out and my nervous system is shot and I accept she will never change.
Any encouraging words or tips would be great? or even admission that isn’t a great idea