u/Educational-Fold7987

Legitimate question:
The father of my kids and i have been separated for more then a year, I in other words, do everything for the kids, manage doctors, call in when sick, cook, clean, feed them, all of that. He shows up when he wants, left to live 6 hours away, calls when pleass.He doesnt know their shoe size, clothes size, diaper size. He is engaged and expecting twins in june, how likely is that he is gonna show up for our children now?? I feel like he wont or maybe he will, i just want to hear from experience. It seems he forgets and only shows up when he wants to.
Im very sad for my children. Our custody arrangement said he has them one month in the summer but he already asked to reduce time or no time this summer.