I want a divorce but don’t know what will happen to me after.
We haven’t been married for a year yet. We are young. It was a mistake from the start. I have a dog and three cats that would have to go with me. Our house is really just his house. I have an already uncomfortable amount of debt. I already know I don’t want to have kids with him because he already walks past messes for days on end and will “forget” to do the chores I asked him to do (I shouldn’t even have to ask. He’s a grown man. Why am I the only one cleaning and cooking?) I just have felt like we’ve been roommates for the last year. I don’t want to try anymore, I know it will not change. He is immature and emotionally unavailable. His wedding vows reflected that and they sucked. He’s not someone I want to spend the rest of my life with by any means. I just don’t even know what to do. I don’t know how to file for divorce, and I don’t know if that’s actually the right choice. It would uproot my entire life. Help