u/EdJakubowski1

My supervisor tried to force me to attend a work meeting during a scheduled lecture

reconfirmedI'm in my last semester of university and will graduate next August. I started a new job a few weeks ago, and from the very beginning, I made sure my employer knew I was a full-time student. I even gave them my lecture schedule. My boundaries were clear: no work shifts on days I had lectures, as absences directly affect my grades.

My job is to give in-home care for elderly people with special needs. The work is about 20 hours a week, mostly on weekends. I'm assigned to a client with significant needs, and their condition requires regular meetings, usually on Wednesdays, which I was told were mandatory. The client's case manager, whom I'll call 'J', is not my direct supervisor.

'J' brought up these mandatory regular meetings for the client with significant needs. I immediately told her I couldn't attend due to my mid-day lecture. She seemed understanding and said she'd send me a summary later. Come Wednesday, my phone blew up with calls and messages from 'J', asking why I wasn't at the meeting. I quickly replied via message, reminding her that I had explained the scheduling conflict due to the lecture and that I couldn't just skip it. Her response was a bit sharp: 'You should have organized your schedule better! And you'll need to reschedule this meeting.'

I was furious and, frankly, ready to resign on the spot. But instead, I called my primary manager to explain everything. Thankfully, she was very supportive. She essentially re-confirmed to 'J' that my lecture schedule was part of the initial employment agreement.

Honestly, is it really that hard for some supervisors to understand that one's education is more important than a temporary job?

Welcome to the rest of your life, where some people only care about things that directly affect them. Yeah, the company I worked for is generally a lot better than some others. If clients attack a staff member, they are kicked out of the program.

Honestly, I’m very frustrated, but I don’t really have another option. I’ll prepare for interviews with InterviewMan's help and be ready to accept any upcoming opportunities. I hope finding another job won’t take too long.

u/EdJakubowski1 — 1 day ago

Anyway, a very strange situation happened at work a few days ago. I work at a clinic, and when I went last Wednesday, the patient data registration software was completely down. This meant we literally couldn't do any of our work, and there was no idea when it would be fixed.

Management told us we couldn't clock in until the system was back up because we were 'not doing our job'. Okay, fine. But then a colleague of mine asked if she could go home since we weren't getting paid for this time, and they told her 'no'. I'm very surprised how my managers, who have been running this place for over 15 years, don't know that it's illegal to force employees to stay at the workplace without paying them. If I didn't need this job so badly, I honestly would have just left.

In the end, I only lost about 45 minutes of pay, but it's the principle of the matter. What if the system had been down for 4 hours? Were we supposed to just sit there without pay? I feel like I should report this to the labor office, but does anyone know if I can file a report anonymously? I'm a bit worried about their reaction, to be honest.

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u/EdJakubowski1 — 9 days ago