New Wife moves dates for more her and I time
Wife and I have been together for 4-1/2 years. We're making the summer kids schedule. I have 3 kids and my wife has 2. Thought the school year, I do a 2-2-3-2-2-3. My wife does every Mom and Tue and every other weekend, same weekends as my kids. It's works well as we each get days with all the kids together as well as my kids alone and her kids alone.
Going back and forth between our schedules and our ex's schedule, she made the month of June going for a wild mix days with kids, having kids most days that month, to more days with just her and I, and moved some of her days with her ex to accommodate. Now when we have kids that month, all kids are together, never separate kids days.
Am I wrong in thinking the I wanted to keep the occasional days with one set of kids alone, rather than spending more time with my wife? I think it's important that kids have time with just their parent and not always with their step siblings.
Thoughts?