Soo I just wanna know about your experiences.
My older sister and I are pretty close. We can always talk and share anything with one another. The thing is I sometimes have the feeling for some time now, that I never really get the chance to tell about my day at all.
I think three or two years ago my sister told me that it’s always just me talking and never her. I felt bad because I never realized and told her obviously she can tell me about things and her day too and I will gladly listen.
Tbh in retrospect, I don’t think that was the case because every time we talk I never really say anything about me or my day. I know it may sound silly but I wanna talk and tell her about my things, too.
But whenever I start she always gets uninterested. So I feel weird and ashaamed and never really continue to talk. Just now I wanted to tell her what happened on the way home and she was directly uninterested. She told me about her thing but she wasn’t interested in my stuff.
I don’t really know how or if I can say that to her bc she already said one time that I’m dramatic or that it’s not the truth. I know she doesn’t see it that way and I feel bad when I pinpoint it to her bc she gets annoyed with me. Then she says things like: you repeat yourself to often, you talk too slowly or that I tell the most unimportant things in the world. Idk. Maybe I do. But she does it as well. And sometimes she says she doesn’t have time to listen because she has to study but always after she told me about her things for half an hour or more.
It feels immensely weird now if I push to talk about me. I feel ashamed. Ahhhh, idk what to do, bc it makes me sad but I don’t wanna drive a wedge between us, bc everything is alr. It’s just me searching for problems.