Living together after divorce unable to sell home
We're married for 2.5 years and dated before that on and off for 3-4 years. The divorce is amicable, we both want to sell the home but we are unable to due to not having enough equity in the property. We installed an HVAC system through a personal loan and we are in total agreement that we don't want to make a profit on the sale when it comes time. We would be more than happy if we just break even and have it all paid off. We have separate cars, rooms, food, and respect each other's space. We have no kids but each have a dog. We agreed to split our debts reasonably as well as the pups. We haven't been intimate in months at least more than 5. We are both trying to be emotionally intelligent, we try not to argue and each see our own therapists on a monthly basis as well as a marriage counselor.
We've gone to counseling and have assured that the marriage itself is not salvageable, we are two completely different people. The counselor believes we can be good friends as we have plenty of history and both understand why we both can't make the marriage work. We go to counseling in order to help us through the divorce and transition into single life. I initiated the divorce, and we will both be filing mutually as an uncontested divorce as she understands and is empathetic to my reasoning.
I'm not sure what I'm looking for here. I'm scared and nervous for the future. Should we rent out the house? We got it two months ago it's a $275k balance and mortgage $2425 a month. We can't afford it on our own but also can't afford to sell it. We do want our own space and we understand we would need to separate to heal as amicable as we are.
However, if we are stuck living with each other for a while (1-2 years) and look to start dating I'm totally fine with her seeing someone. I truly want her to be happy and I've made that clear to her. She's a kind person and is a great friend but I don't have romantic feelings for her. I truly want what's best for her and believe she should be with someone that can show her affection the way she wants.
I plan to be open to whoever I date in the future but like I'm saying if I'm stuck living with her for a while until we can sell the home are we seen as a walking red flags? In this economy and market it's incredibly difficult to live alone and we are doing this out of no choice rather. I understand we are still tied together if we are both on the loan but also we are trying to be incredibly reasonable adults and respect each other's lives.
Not that I'm already wanting to jump into another relationship but I have a social life and idk what's to come in the future. I'm just putting my thoughts onto paper I guess? Any reassurance, advice, or personal experiences? Like I said we are both trying to be as respectful as we can be to each other.
I'm sorry if my post is erratic and all over the place just need to put all this down somewhere.