u/Ecstatic-Drag-4950

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i know someone cheated on their girlfriend but i don’t know her

a few months ago i was at a party with friends, i was never super close with these people but my friend is.
I was under the impression one of the people at the party was bringing his girlfriend and i was actually really excited to meet her, but he said she had to work that night.
a few days later my friend i’m close with told me that this guy got super drunk and had sex with a long time friend of his. i immediately unfollowed him and i haven’t seen him since, their whole friend group seemed pretty devastated because he didn’t seem like the type at all. The person who he got with told him she was going to tell his girlfriend but chickened out i guess?
nobody wants to tell her for god idk why but nobody is supposed to know either, especially not me. my friend said i cant tell her because her friends will know she told me, the couple just moved in together and have been together for like…4? years. she always sounded so sweet and its really been eating at me.

i have a few spit balls like making a burner account or making someone i have no idea tell her. i wish i had the balls to just do it but i don’t want my close friend in trouble. she lives a city over so i thought maybe anonymously messaging her and meeting her publicly.

anyone have any thoughts?

edit:
i like how i can tell if guys or girls are commenting.

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u/Ecstatic-Drag-4950 — 5 days ago