I just can’t understand the hate from him
I have been split from my ex since about Aug 25.
After 6 years together, he refused to leave the home and after a couple months in separate rooms, his behaviour escalated and he was arrested
This was totally out of character. He had never even shouted before.
However he contributed no financial help at all in 6 years, he barely worked despite being a skilled tradesman and easily able to find work.
I ended it when the reality that he could not even be bothered to spend time with his children (from previous relationship) who were 9 and 10 years old and would rather do cocaine then anything else.
Since splitting his campaign of hate has broke me.
I loved this man so much and thought it was mutual
The reality that he has tried to make me homeless, loss my job and even turned my 23year old son against me. His a loser, he clearly never cared. But the hurt is unbearable. I did nothing but say no more freeloading
How do you manage such hurt?