Ive recently found out that my parents and my partners parents are in a similar boat when it comes to our relationship ( both female). When i first came out my parents sounded like they were okay with me being gay and that they still loved and supported me no matter what but over the years ive seen them leaning towards a "your confused and we hope you still find a good guy in the future" mentality.
My partner is not out but it is pretty obvious her parents know and after some snooping we've discovered that they have been talking about us behind our back (similar as my parents but more disgusting wording).
This is very upsetting especially since i absolutely love my parents and i dont doubt that my partner does too. What does one genuinely do in this situation?? Moving out has been on my mind but in this economy and both of us being in college it is just not a good time financially.