Soooo the past three weeks of my realtionship were like a dream. We spoke, hung out, laughed. I love him so much we were having so much fun. Then this week i just felt like he doesn’t like me anymore. I asked him if we had plans for this friday and he said idk maybe i want to go to a barbecue. I attacked him saying he used I instead of We so he doesnt want to be around me because he doesnt love me anymore.
We had a whole fight about it.
My question is: can we really trust our perceptions and feeling about our relationships? One moment its amazing and the other I find every sign that he hates me so I hate him.
The problem I have with this is if I can’t trust my perception then what if I miss some red flag or sign just because I tell myself its all in my head. I can’t trust my instincts, but i also can’t trust my lack of trust in them. It’s all so exhausting. I feel like i ruin everything maybe it’s better to be single.