Am I the asshole for this?:(
So last night my girl and I had a sleepcall like we always do and yesterday there was thunder and etc but I fell asleep early because I wasn't feeling well
Now, that she's awake I see a "bro I got no sleep last night, had some panic attacks lol" on her discord notes (we aren't online dating ik her IRL)
Now, I messaged her and apologized for last night and she said "dont be, just had some panic attacks but eh"
There has been multiple times where she does this sarcastic thing, and I don't know if she's being like actual sarcastic or if it's gaslighting.
Not only that I struggle with cues and don't know what her tone is through text.
So, everytime she posts a note like that (there has been numerous occasions and I also have proof of it. And it doesn't just apply to discord) I feel bad like I don't know what to do.
So am I the asshole for leaving her scared last night?
(PS, I was aware she was scared but I thought she could handle it bcs it was only small thunder and thought she would talk to our friends on discord to relieve her fears)