u/Eccentric-Elf

People are nice to me but I feel like I’m never going to be someone’s favorite or go-to person. I don’t mean in romance but just friendships. I’ve always struggled with that and it doesn’t help that I feel that people just are nice to me because they like me but not enough to want to hang out or have longer conversations where they know something about me. If I’m very quiet then that’s when they’ll talk more to me. I hate it. It feels like a pity conversation. “Oh, So-and-so isn’t herself today”. I don’t have friends and doubt that’ll change. Maybe I just need to stop thinking other people are more important to me than they think of me? Idk.