My bf broke up with me :(
I know quite a few people saw my other post a couple months back about my friend J who asked me out. Well, things were going amazing with nearly out of the blue he suddenly became distant and never giving affection unless I intitiated it. I knew he was going through some things at home but this was such a stark difference from when earlier I asked him in summary “have your feelings for me changed? If you’re going through something new I don’t wanna be left in the dark” and he responded back with also in summary “I’m sorry, I lost feelings for you I don’t know my own sexuality and don’t know if I experience love the way other people do” which is like okay, sure, I get it. But in that message, he said verbaitim “I don’t feel the same way I did for you as I did a month ago” A MONTH?? I spent so much time and guilt wondering if he was okay or if I had did something just for him to be checked out and not loving me for a month. I feel so stupid, because we did jump into really intimate things really fast, which I figured was okay because prior to the relationship we were friends for multiple years. And I just can’t believe I gave up those things you can only experience for the first time once to someone who couldn’t even love me for longer than a month :(