u/DurianEmbarrassed771

is it just me or is it actually so hard to find a good pair of white jeans 😭

like i’m not even being picky… i just don’t want them to be that super bright, almost blue-white color, and i don’t want high-waisted. and why are so many of them thin or kind of see-through??

i just want a nice pair that’s a little softer in color, sits mid or low rise, and actually feels like real denim

pls tell me i’m not the only one struggling with this 🥲 and if you’ve found a good pair, where??

valid ba na masaktan ako sa ganitong “jokes” ng boyfriend ko?

We’re both 26. Madalas niya akong sabihan na dapat ako lagi ang nagreremind sa kanya ng mga gagawin niya. Tapos minsan sasabihin pa niya na kasalanan ko raw kapag may nakalimutan siya kasi hindi ko siya naremind. Kapag kino-call out ko, sasabihin niya “joke lang” or most of the time he doesn’t even say that.

I’ve told him multiple times na ayoko ng ganung comments because it makes me feel like I’m acting as his mom, which I’m not.

Last night, nagsset ako ng alarms ko and tinanong niya bakit hindi ko pa raw agahan in case hindi siya magising. I said hindi ko responsibility ‘yon. (For context: I already wake up early to prepare his baon and bag before he leaves for work.)

Sinabi niya na kasalanan ko raw kaya hindi siya nagising early at muntik na nalate last time. Doon na ako nagalit and said it’s not my responsibility—responsibilidad niya ‘yon.

Then he said “joke lang” ulit. I told him nasaktan ako and he didn’t even apologize. Instead, minura niya ako—tinawag niya akong “fucking dumb bitch.” After that, sinabi pa niya na rude daw ako and ako pa ang dapat mag-sorry.

I told him I was hurt and that he should be the one to apologize. Later, after a nap, in-approach niya ako and asked again kung magso-sorry daw ba ako. I asked him back kung siya ba magsosorry for what he said. Hindi na siya sumagot and natulog ulit.

Is it just me, or is this not okay?

is it okay to get hurt about jokes from bf that are not even funny?

valid ba na masaktan ako sa ganitong “jokes” ng boyfriend ko?

We’re both 26. Madalas niya akong sabihan na dapat ako lagi ang nagreremind sa kanya ng mga gagawin niya. Tapos minsan sasabihin pa niya na kasalanan ko raw kapag may nakalimutan siya kasi hindi ko siya naremind. Kapag kino-call out ko, sasabihin niya “joke lang” or most of the time he doesn’t even say that.

I’ve told him multiple times na ayoko ng ganung comments because it makes me feel like I’m acting as his mom, which I’m not.

Last night, nagsset ako ng alarms ko and tinanong niya bakit hindi ko pa raw agahan in case hindi siya magising. I said hindi ko responsibility ‘yon. (For context: I already wake up early to prepare his baon and bag before he leaves for work.)

Sinabi niya na kasalanan ko raw kaya hindi siya nagising early at muntik na nalate last time. Doon na ako nagalit and said it’s not my responsibility—responsibilidad niya ‘yon.

Then he said “joke lang” ulit. I told him nasaktan ako and he didn’t even apologize. Instead, minura niya ako—tinawag niya akong “fucking dumb bitch.” After that, sinabi pa niya na rude daw ako and ako pa ang dapat mag-sorry.

I told him I was hurt and that he should be the one to apologize. Later, after a nap, in-approach niya ako and asked again kung magso-sorry daw ba ako. I asked him back kung siya ba magsosorry for what he said. Hindi na siya sumagot and natulog ulit.

Is it just me, or is this not okay?