I’m in a long-distance relationship, and in a few days it’ll be our 3rd anniversary. I’ve done everything I could for her bought gifts, supported her, stayed loyal, and always tried to make things work. Her family knows about us and they like me too.
The problem is that she cheated on me 3 times in the past. For almost a year now, things have been going well and I don’t think she’s cheating anymore, but emotionally things still feel wrong.
She doesn’t emotionally support me or value me like before. She easily curses me, my family, and even my mom during arguments. Meanwhile, I’ve learned to stay calm, respect her, and avoid huge fights.
Even right now, my feelings got hurt just because I asked her to update me about what she was doing. Somehow she got mad at me, ignored my messages, and made it seem like everything was my fault.
Mentally and physically, I feel weak and drained. I honestly don’t know if I’m overthinking or if this relationship is just unhealthy at this point.
What do you think? Any advice?