My husband told our 4 year old daughter he hated me and that I'm evil, on Mother's Day.
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I was in the backyard, [ no conflict in the morning, but unresolved conflict from the night before. ] Our daughter came out tatteling on daddy that he said he hated me and mommy is evil. I went into the house and calmly, with a hurt look on my face, asked him why he would say those things behind my back to our daughter or in front of our daughter? He looked down, ashamed for only a half a second before screaming out in rage at me his defenses for saying it; all of which are faulting me. I didnt raise my voice, we were not fighting before that, it was completely out of the blue and terrifying. Our daughter started screaming and crying that she was scared of daddy. I carried her outside and sat with her on my lap. He opened the kitchen window and continued to shout out at us at the top of his voice everything he thinks is wrong with me. I stood up, carrying her around the house, thru the garage and buckled her into the carseat. I had to go back into the house for my keys. He did not try to to stop or block me, but continued to scream abusive phrases at me until we drove off.
eventually I came home and we've been silent to each other. It is now 6pm. He has yet to apologize. I still have said nothing.
I know I need to leave, but I dont have a job that earns enough and Im scared its too hard to make happen.