Me 32(M) and my partner (24F) facing relationship issues.
so please read this post ..
I am having serious doubts about my partner . we met a year and half before in starting everything was nice . jumping to now we are planning on getting engaged and now the red flags started showing up .
she has a dominant personality earlier it was not a issue because in the end she used to listen to me ,understand me but now it's like what she fights with me if something is not upto her liking
i used to financially support her , but now it's like I need to support her family else she would resume her OF .
( SHE USED TO DO THIS , SHE TOLD ME ITS BECAUSE AFTER FATHER EXPIRED SHE DIDNT HAD ANY OTHER MEANS TO SUPPORT HER FAMILY ) I understood it and she promised she would quit it before marriage .
I am scared of physical abuse , there have been instances in her violent outburst she had raised her hand on me .
we had a big fight yesterday , i told her my parents are not getting ready for this marriage and now all of sudden her sweet side came up , which I haven't seen for almost a year . why not all of sudden .
please help me understand if she is really the one for me .
**TL;DR;** : not able to understand if she loves me or not .