Hello everyone,
Over the weekend I got a cold, as this was happening me and my bf got into a fight because i needed more help in the house while being sick (going to the grocery). He got very defensive and because I was tired and couldn't handle it I just told him that i don't want to have this discussion any more. He got more enraged, telling me that i am trying to control him because i stoped the fight "on my own terms". After that we stoped talking all together; we live together so it was very awkward. Our only interaction was him telling me "good morning".
Three days later, still sick, i was feed up that he didn't care how i was feeling and he didn't help me at all with my cold, so i told him that he was selfish. He insists that i should've come first.
My issue is that, regardless of the fight, i feel like a loving partner will be there for me when i am sick even after a fight and he will not leave me all alone. His point of view is that "he was emotionally distressed while i was physically distress which is not so important".