u/Due-Mycologist8601

I just had a guy I was seeing tell me the reason we can’t work is because “he might like guys but only feminine guys”. So apparently he started pursuing me thinking I was a femboy. It sucks so fucking bad cuz I’m pre-t and genuinely thought he just saw me as a guy cuz I do pass to a lot of my guy friends irl and most don’t even realise I’m trans until I say so.

Most annoying thing is this isn’t even the first time this has happened, irl it is but online I try flirting with guys who say they’re bi/pan and then I end up finding out they just like women and men in skirts and thigh highs.

Fuck man I hate being trans sometimes