u/Due-Mix-9465

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28M, first noticed my hairline receding around the temples when I was like 23/24. I hopped on fin right away so it’s stayed pretty much the same. Anyway! I asked this same question on r/balding and got about a 50/50, so looking for a tie breaker here.

I don’t just mean what looks more attractive (I don’t worry too much about that as I don’t see myself as particularly attractive) but I will take input there as well. More so what’s more fitting and looks my age, what looks proper for work/events, stuff like that.

Thanks for any input!

u/Due-Mix-9465 — 11 days ago
▲ 17 r/Balding

Been receded for years around the temples. Hopped on fin so it’s basically stayed where it’s at just want to know which cut y’all think is best or if I should go bald. 1 and 2 is buzzed at #.5 3 and 4 is buzzed at a #2 5 and 6 is grown out for a few months 7 is a crown shot just to show that you can still see the thinning when it’s longer And 8 is when I had a bit of an Afro going right before I realized it was thinning lol

u/Due-Mix-9465 — 13 days ago

My girlfriend is making me miserable

Pretty much just the title. My girlfriend is like this black cloud of misery that is just making me miserable by proxy. I dread weekends now when we’re both stuck together. I am not allowed to go do anything that doesn’t involve her or it starts an argument, and I don’t really know why because it doesn’t seem like she even wants to be around me. I just receive a constant stream of criticism and highlights of my flaws.

Our apartment is disgusting, and it’s all basically her mess that she refuses to clean up. She acknowledges this but when the opportunity comes to clean she just gets in a bad mood and has a breakdown and nothing gets done. She claims her job is “too stressful” that when the weekend comes she physically cannot lock in, she works from home 3 days out of the week…

This part makes me feel bad for saying but she has gotten extremely overweight. I wouldn’t necessarily mind but she does and refuses to do anything about it. She simply can’t get up and perform any activity or try to work on herself. This is manifesting in her having an abysmal attitude, she’s rude and mean. She expects me to have sex with her even though she’s looking bad on the outside and is even uglier on the inside.

She argues about everything. Truly I’ve never seen someone with more spite for the most benign things you can imagine. She gets mad at me for literally everything. If it’s a nice day out and I want to go for a 10 minute walk and she doesn’t want to she’ll get pissy about it. She got mad at me for buying a punching bag to put in the basement claiming I’m taking up space (she literally refuses to go in the basement because of spiders). She has a genuine disdain for people with hobbies and interests because she has none.

She had a breakdown a week ago where she acknowledged she’s mean and rude and she worries I’ll brake up with her. Since then she’s continued to be rude and just constantly criticize and argue and I just can’t do it anymore idk. I fear I know what needs to be done but would really like things to go back to the way they were before she started down this black hole.

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u/Due-Mix-9465 — 18 days ago