My friend caught her fiancé cheating on her with another girl. It’s been a year since she shared those screenshots with us. I saw her ex this morning and decided to look at the evidence again because I wanted to confront him. My friend supported him financially. She even bought him the vehicle he had been asking for so he wouldn’t have a hard time commuting anymore. She did everything for him. But around that time, my friend was diagnosed with cancer and needed chemotherapy for the next six months. She was terrified and devastated. She hid it from her ex for a few months. One day, while she was having her infusion, she was scrolling through her phone and came across messages that led her to discover that the girl she had been jealous of before was actually involved with her fiancé. Right there, at the infusion center, she found out everything. She tried to handle it all on her own and didn’t tell any of us—until she couldn’t take it anymore. I went to his workplace because I had a feeling something was off that day. And there it was—I found her hanging by the stairs. She had tried to take her own life. I saw her iPad and read everything. She begged her ex, but he still chose the other girl. I called 911, and fortunately, she survived. Eventually, we convinced her to open up so she could feel a little lighter. She shared some of the screenshots with us. So going back—when I saw those screenshots again, even though I wanted to confront the guy, I decided not to. It’s honestly just pitiful. I realized my friend is way better than that girl. For example, this screenshot—she wants to flirt, but can’t even use proper grammar? I don’t care—girls should support and respect each other. But how can you respect someone who knowingly goes after a man who’s already taken? I even went to Tarlac and did some digging about this girl. Lol… just wow. A volleyball player, an SK, daughter of a politician, and an OFW. And still acting like that? My friend is way better—background, education, looks, and attitude. It’s honestly embarrassing. But I guess they suit each other: one foolish man and one foolish woman. One who thinks he’s handsome, and one who thinks she’s beautiful. For the record, my friend now has her own business abroad. She’s cancer-free and currently pursuing a career in the medical field while managing her business. To girls like that—and to all women—learn to respect each other. We never know what someone else is going through. If you weren’t raised with respect, at least have some decency for yourself. If you know someone is already taken, stay away. Have some shame. I hope her family finds out the kind of person she really is. My friend is happy and at peace now. But every time I remember what she went through because of her ex and that girl, I can’t help but feel angry. She’s too kind to get revenge. But if I were her? You’d better be hiding.