I have flaws.
We all do.
I do not expect a partner to be perfect
Been dating a chick for almost a year.
Some arguments but I love her and things have mostly stabilized.
Today she copped at attitude about a concern I had.
I was feeling like she hasn't been making the relationship a priority.
Instead of being constructive she chose to attack ly work ethic and me as a person.
I blocked her to avoid things escalating......unblocked her just to send this
"I do not like how this feels.
I was feeling like I'm not a priority to you.
I feel like I brought up a legitimate concern and instead of reminding me that you are just super busy and that I am still a priority to you.....
You chose to get angry and attack my work ethic and me as a person
Many times when I'm arguing with my ex-wife I will temporarily block her because I don't wanna deal with the drama
I did that earlier with you because I didn't wanna fight and make things worse
I'm going to do that again after I send this text.
Maybe we both need to pray about the situation and let God take the center stage here.
I love you.
But your response to my concern was not legitimate or helpful
I hope that you feel like texting me later this evening."
Thoughts?