u/Dryy7

I am reaching out desperate for help on what I should be doing to support my husband through his recovery. It’s been six months since he first came clean to me about his addiction and since then he has had several relapses. When I ask him what happened he says he was triggered by something but never feels comfortable telling me exactly what triggered him. He says he feels embarrassed to talk to me about it. But he also won’t go to a therapist. I want to be able to be that support system for him but how can I if he doesn’t feel comfortable fully opening up. What can I do?

Would really appreciate anyone that would be willing to share their experiences with supportive partners. At this point I’ll be up all night