I am not a SAHM, my girls are almost 11 months old and they go to daycare during the week. We are currently trying to put both girls to sleep since it's pretty much 9 PM in my country, and they usually go to bed at 8ish. They are usually very happy and chill, with a few tantrums here and there, but tolerable. But today... oh boy, they are both fussing and angry crying like hell. I don’t know if it’s teeth related or just a phase, but my point is I genuinely don’t know how SAHM do this every day, 24/7. This is really, really rough. If my girls were not in daycare and if I had to do this every day alone, I would probably be depressed or in a hospice. This is not for the weak.
Please know that you are rockstars, and I truly applaud you for what you are able to do.