u/Dry_Okra_4531

I am in my feels a lot recently because in the last couple months I have barely had sex with my partner. When we do, I'm always the one to initiate it. If I don't, we just don't.

I've brought this up a few times and I know he is depressed recently, but we both are. Our relationship is great and so is the sex when it actually happens. These days I'm just feeling extra down about it.

I'd like to avoid topics involving "getting it elsewhere" or "not attractive" as both are certainly not the case here.