u/Dry_Explorer7232

Hey everyone! Quick existential crisis wrapped in a belly-button conundrum (stick with me, I promise this is relatable). I’ve always thought that the thinner I looked-think super flat belly, sleek vibes-was the gold standard. But plot twist: as a bi woman, I keep finding myself super attracted to women who are curvy, soft, and just a bit more rounded (but not, like, big boob, big butt stereotypes). So here’s the plot twist—when I slim down, the booty also flattens out (noooo). So, Reddit, tell me—what’s the sweet spot? Where do most guys (or whoever’s got opinions) fall in this balancing act-lean and sleek, or soft and curvy? Spill your wisdom, I need a map to my own confidence!