Future Faking & Promises
Just a example of my experience (speaking from the woman perspective )
I think it’s so important as girls that we start holding the other gender accountable when they future promise and actually hold them to it. I used to let it go on and on until I changed my approach recently.
I was speaking to a 30 year old divorcee with no kids and he is a doctor (or claimed to be god knows ) he was very intentional about his plans for marriage and wanting kids and in the first few initial phone calls we seemed to click on a lot of things , but he was very heavy on the I’ll do this I’ll do that , ask me for anything like mentioning it six times a day.
So one day I decided to test him , nothing major just asked if he could help cover a phone bill. In response he stalled and said I could do in a few hours I said okay no problem , then said something quite inappropriate with laughing emojis …. I just blocked.
This was a matter of a few days and that interaction changed something in me. Thank god I asked then and there and saw his intentions.