u/DryAd1979

I've been on my unit for 6 months, and I'm getting tired of the attempt of bullying. This morning while trying to give a nurse report. It's 7am. I see the oncoming nurse and I say, "Hi, nurse can I give you report I have 3 people for you." she ignores me. So, I move on to the next nurse (I'm trying to go home!) While giving the next nurse report, I hear her saying' "some girl tried to give me report, where is she?". Very loud I'm in the adjacent hallway and I can hear her and the charge nurse laughing about that comment. My name is clearly on the board, I felt like that was unnecessary. As I'm walking up to the nurses station she goes, "Let's go I've been waiting for you". In a rude condescending way. I immediately tell her don't speak to me that way, you weren't ready to take report, I tried to call you and you ignored me. We started going back and forth. I call my charge nurses name trying to get them to intervene and my name gets immediately call as if I'm the one that was the aggressor. And as I am trying to give report she's interrupting in front of the patient. This has been my third time having to address someone and I'm getting tired of them. As a new grad, I'm trying my best to communicate clearly and do things the right way, so situations like this frustrate me so much and are discouraging.

I'm getting married this September and my mother is now saying she wont attend my wedding if my oldest sister, her daughter is there. They have a long history of drama, words/threats exchanged on both sides. I talked to my sister and told her I want them both there and she's willing to be peaceful and ignore her but my mother is saying she's not coming. When she said it her tone was cold without any sorrow just expressing how she feels. I asked what about me and how that makes me feel because I want to invite all of my siblings she said she didn't care and she won't attend. My mother is a narcissist but deep inside I really want her there, and for a minute we were getting along. I told her she was selfish and this moment is not about her and if she loved me she wouldn't let her hate stop her for showing up for me. I told her I won't choose and she stood on what she said. I just feel numb....