M27 from turkey, f26 from America
Hi everyone! I am currently going through it and confused. I was dating a man for two years, he split up with me and pretty much ghosted me after kind of forcing me to move out. This has never happened to me. In the process we had become friends with a Turkish man, and as we split he became closer to me, and we kind of progressed into a relationship. This has only been about a month. He’s told me he loves me, wants kids with me etc. this is so confusing, because the last couple days he has pulled away quite a bit. There’s cultural differences between us, a ton. I’ve deleted Snapchat and instagram to make him happy, he’s bought me things, I only spend me extra time with him. I just don’t know if anyone has experience dating a man from turkey.. I adore him and want to keep him in my life. Him pulling away is pretty distressing to me, and I just want to pull him back in. What I’ve read online is to just give him space.. but I am a very anxious person and that is so so hard for me. If there anything I can do in particular that would help with his uneasy feelings? I know he feels weird and bad that we met through my ex, even though my ex doesn’t reach out to him. If there’s anything I could clarify more please ask questions, because I’m looking for all the advice I can get with this situation. Thanks everyone