Hi,
Can anyone recommend good schools for learning German? Hopefully ones that use English more than French when teaching or communicating. If they also offer helping out the students get to Germany after the tests then it's an extra.
Thanks a lot!
Not looking, just curious if such girls actually exist.
I've met one girl who said she didn't care about a big wedding and is more interested in the future. I cuss myself every day for not taking her.
I know I sound cheap af, I promise I'm not and can afford all of that, but it just screams materialistic to me and it's a bit of a red flag.
EDIT: I'm getting called cheap and poor left and right, despite what I said in my post about wanting to spend on my woman privately, and not publicly to flex on people. One girl even insulted my mother (??????)
If my post somehow offended you then you probably fall into this category of women that go for a big wedding to empress and spite people. You should reflect on that a bit, maybe you wouldn't be relying on reddit to find a suitable partner if you work on that mentality a bit.
I'm a 29M who doesn't live in a big city, so not much to do around here. I finished college years ago and work from home as a freelancer, so I have no way to ''meet'' people of the opposite sex.
I'm the type of person that does not stare at people when outside. Never tried to talk to or approach a girl outside before, I just find it weird and extremely uncomfortable.
I did speak to a few during college and high school and a couple of them tried to approach me back then but I wasn't into that at the time. I never initiated anything but I wish I did, especially during college because I may have already gotten married by now.
Dating apps are a big no no. Never tried them, and never will.
I have a very different mindset and likes than the people that live here (Again, I come from a small town) so I know for a fact that I can't find a girl with a somewhat similar mindset here. They're all a copy paste of each other (On phone 24/7, listen to rai music, never seen a movie or a show, don't read books, can't form a phrase in English type of people) I'm sorry if I sound like I'm generalizing but they literally are in here. Both sexes.
I feel like finding someone online is an option but I tried long distance before and it ended in tragedy. And I wasn't seeking a relationship when it happened so I'm not sure how to approach a girl online to begin with.
Now for my question, for someone in my exact situation. Will asking my sister or mom to find a girl that might eventually be suitable for marriage or a proposal the only good option?
Would appreciate advice. If there are other options I can try first then please let me know.
Will probably delete after. I feel embarrassed talking about such things smh